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Do you feel that you lack motivation and confidence? Do you feel that there are too many set backs in your life and that something is weighing you down? Well let me tell you right now, you shouldn’t. You need to understand that whatever you’re aiming for in life, whatever direction you choose to go, there will be turmoil and problems.
When in the pit of despair, don’t be thinking that you’ll never be able to climb out of it again. You should use all of your wits and strength and use all of that energy into climbing out of that hole in which you’ve stalled.
Identify your goals. Identify what you want to do. When you’ve done this, and only when you’ve done this, you will find that staying on the straight and narrow is much easier. With you mind set to what you want to achieve, imagine the end result, imagine how good you’re going to feel when you finally reach the finish line. Use visualisation as a way for you to get your priorities straight.
For example, you want to lose weight? Are you not comfortable in your own skin? Visualize yourself skinnier, healthier and most importantly, happier. Because if you don’t visualize what you want, how will you know when you get there?
You need to keep reminding and telling yourself that you’re worth it and that you will accomplish what you want to accomplish. If you don’t believe that you’re capable of doing the goal that you’ve set for yourself, you won’t have success.
A great man once said, ”success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts” -Winston Churchill. He is absolutely right! Sometimes when we have moments of failure, we tell ourselves that it’s over. We tell ourselves that we can’t accomplish what we want. Those are lies and you know it too.
It’s always good to surround yourself with people that you enjoy being in the presence of. Remember, just because people don’t believe in your goals or what you want to do, doesn’t mean you have to also. Remember, the only person who needs to believe is you because the only person who is going to accomplish what you’ve visualized is you.
Always know that there will be difficult times. But when you finally cross that finish line, you will laugh and talk about your past failures as if they were nothing. You don’t need to dive in head first. In fact, it’s okay to sometimes stick your toe in to see if it’s too cold.
As long as you’re willing to work hard to find success and honest with yourself, you will find success.